Let me just say - I knew I’d like it, but I didn’t think I’d like it that much.
I recently had an honest conversation with a good friend of mine and my partner. (Honest conversations are important, remember? See my last article {here}.) I’m not sure how exactly we got on the subject, but we were talking about sex, and my friend (a female, though not sure if that matters) was telling us all about how she loves buttplay.
After a moment of “Um, woah”, I started asking for details. How do you get started? Do you like it fast or slow? Tell me more about your toys. I was super intrigued and wanted to know all the things. She made it sound like fun.
Because I had another girlfriend of mine discussing this very same thing the week before, and because I believe that you should listen to synchronistic messages from the Universe, I got online that night and ordered myself a cute little blue butt plug.
The Chrystalino Pleaser looked visually appealing and claimed it was for beginners, and since it has been years and years since I’ve done anything anal and I have no idea what I’m doing, I figured why not just start here.
Well y’all, I’m glad I did!
My partner is so fucking fabulous and willing to ride the waves of whatever I want to explore. We’ve experimented with this thing a few times this week, and holy shit, it’s been a lot of fun.
I felt really nervous the first time, and I think he did too. After taking a few puffs to get into our comfort zone, we took the Pleaser out of the box and gave it a good wash, then coated it with our favorite CBD lube. (My girlfriends said that extra lube is a MUST.) I laid back on the bed, lifted my knees toward my shoulders, and let him play around. He used the Pleaser to rub around my clit, then slid it about halfway into my vagina. Once I started moving my hips encouraging him to slide it farther in, he moved it down to my ass.
He was gentle, sliding the butt plug into my anus oh so slowly, watching my face for reactions. It was definitely tight as fuck; we had to take a few pauses and add extra lube on occasion, taking our time to get it all the way in. When it was - oh my.
It felt surprisingly comfortable to just have it sit in there, feeling full and heavy inside me while we made out. When he climbed on top of me and slid his dick into my vagina, woah. There were so many sensations happening all at once! We went at it for a few minutes, sliding in and out and all around together while I concentrated on feeling the double penetration. It was my very first time for DP, and I was truly there for it!
We went on like that for about 15 minutes or so. We talked about putting his dick in my butt, and after a while, decided to give it a shot. He grabbed the base of that anal plug and slowly pulled it out. That in itself was an interesting sensation. Once he set it to the side, he rolled my hips so that I was laying on my belly with my butt at the edge of the bed. He handed me my Magic Wand, started to push inside, and holy shit, that felt good - but really tight! Whoo!
Also, holy shit, if you know what I mean. Dirty time was a little dirty (though not a surprising amount) so we paused to clean up;.
After a little rinse, I went back to the bed and went right back to the Magic Wand. (I wasn’t done with that thing yet!) He giggled and walked over to me, and since his penis was nice and clean, went back to work in my vagina.
And let me tell you what. That lingering feeling in my butt paired with both the vibrations on my clit and my partner rubbing my G-spot from the inside - I had the most incredible orgasm of my life. Literally. While I was actively having an orgasm, I could feel yet another build-up happening, and then I had something of an orgasm squared. It felt hot and cold and wet and throbbing and powerful as fuck. Oh my fucking god.
I leaned into that intense sensation for a couple of minutes, then practically melted into the mattress. That was a fun session, and shared that I wanted to do that again! This was not a one time deal! My partner was kinda mesmerized. He loves to hear me scream, and that was definitely one that likely pissed off the neighbors. Not sorry though!
Since that first experience, we’ve tried the Chrystalino Pleaser two more times. Both of those sessions were sultry, risqué, and delicious. One time he was able to work me up enough to slide his dick into my ass, starting incredibly slow and working up to our usual ‘going at it’ pace, which was an oh-my-goodness-I-wasn’t-expecting-that level of satisfaction. Another time he stayed in my pussy and let the Pleaser do the work in the back while giving me yet another earth-shattering orgasm of magic.
Y’all, I’m convinced that anal play is the way to go.
Being relaxed in my mind after vaping cannabis paired with being relaxed in my body with the CBD lube allowed me and my partner to experiment with a whole other world of pleasures. Starting with a couple of friendly (others might say TMI) convos with some girlfriends followed by the relaxed confidence of my favorite sativa, I allowed myself to let go, try something new, and really and truly take my orgasms to another level. I never would’ve done this a year ago, buuttt… I’m so grateful that I gave myself permission to do it now.
